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    • January (4)
  • 2011
    • December (2)
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    • August (2)
    • June (1)
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2012, as it's been so far.

January 11, 2012 9:30 PM

 

I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve graciously thanked God already for this year. I suppose since the pain of 2011 was so bad, it wouldn’t have taken much to truly get better…. but it really has. I’m in a state of radical, world shaking happiness. While this lasts, I’m going to make sure to praise God for it. I’ve been pulling scales off my eyes and looking around for the first time in awhile.

So that is my prayer for 2012. I humbly pray that God shakes up my world. That He allows me to see what He wants me to see, love like He loves, and break for what His heart breaks for. He has already been so gracious to me, and I am thankful.

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Hometown Glory

January 4, 2012 2:12 PM

My hometown has a locally owned coffee house.

I say house, because that’s exactly what it is. They bought an old house in the middle of town and converted it into a coffee house. After awhile they painted this old, two story house a lovely and inviting sunshine yellow. After that they added on a huge wrap around porch, with rocking chairs and a gazebo.

This is never a place to meet expectations of a coffee house. There are homemade items galore - jewelry, local artists, hats, etc. They make incredible coffee and smoothies, but they also make homemade sushi and deli sandwiches. The back is a bookstore. They have large bookshelves that wrap the walls with used books.

I love this place. I spend so much time here when I’m home. I know the owners’ names, and have real conversations when I’m here. When I was in high school and I was a paid photographer, I used this place often. It’s just so darn cozy.

If any of you ever come home with me, we must go here. There’s no argument.

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Reading

January 4, 2012 2:11 PM

I sat in the backseat. Starry eyed, watching sunlight dance, I filled with with excitement at every visit. The library for me is not a place that I went begrudgingly. I was given a card to check out my own books before I could even really read. My Mother believed in the importance of reading, and taught it to me from the very beginning. A large section of my earliest memories are of sitting on the floor of the library or racing around desperately trying to pick the choice books that would go home with me.

Books go farther than stacks of paper bound together with ink gracing the pages. Books are escapes from reality. In reading, you discover lands you can only dream of. You fall in love with people only alive in the books. Books stir hope and passion, and fill your mind.

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Bucket List

January 4, 2012 2:10 PM
  • Travel - recklessly, spontaneously, and as much as possible (places of where require their own list)
  • get married.
  • have children. (biologically, adopted, potentially both.)
  • become a Christian counselor.
  • Do trauma therapy mission work.
  • go rock climbing!
  • learn to sail.
  • learn to fly an airplane.
  • learn at least two languages.
  • have to get another passport because mine is too full.
  • work in a bookstore/open a bookstore
  • write a book.
  • live in another country.
  • get a tattoo(s).
  • ride in a hot air balloon.
  • have an adventure book.

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I have learned (Lessons from November and December)

December 16, 2011 11:52 AM

There’s a lot of things that have been happening to me in the last couple of months that I wish I could take the time here to write about.

However, I’ve started to learn that my entire life doesn’t need to be publicized for people that don’t know me or barely do.

So here is what I will share: my life has been in a constant state of ups and downs over the last month. I’ve learned that it is alright to hurt when you hurt and to be happy just because you want to be. I’ve learned that even though circumstances look bleak, I have the power to change as much as I will allow myself. I’ve learned that God puts people in your life that become prevalent… but don’t always stay that way. Some people aren’t supposed to be in your life forever. No matter how much that hurts, you have to love them while they are in your life. I’ve also learned how to more deeply love the people in my life, and how to let them love me. I’ve learned that only you and who you are in God can define who you are in this life. I’ve learned that God’s plans do not always match up to my expectations. God continues to surprise me.

But the most important thing I’ve learned is that in the end, God is always God. Once I put my trust in Him, nothing else really matters. I just have to take everything one moment at a time, no matter how bad things seem.

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Spiritual Gifts for the Holidays

December 5, 2011 1:15 AM

I’m currently watching the Jim Carey version of How the Grinch Stole Christmas. He tried so hard to ruin their Christmas by taking their gifts, but he didn’t. “Christmas doesn’t come from a store. Maybe Christmas, perhaps, is a little bit more.”

Dear Future Husband,

 Let’s make sure our children understand that Christmas isn’t about material blessings. God has taken care of us. Whether it be that we donate every year, take care of someone, or start off our holiday with devotional thoughts and a prayer - let us make sure our home is humble to the things God has blessed us with.

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My Passions

October 6, 2011 1:44 PM

I made this list at GO! camp. I found it last night, and I felt a deep sense of inspiration and hope run through me. Much of the same feelings I felt while at camp, actually. While there I was on such a high, believing that I could do anything. I felt the need to write down a tangible list of things I felt a passion towards, a calling to try to work towards or with.

So I want to talk about some things I’ve done since writing this list. My intention is not to boast, but to simply make sure (hold myself accountable, I suppose) that camp did not actually stop at camp.

  • mission work - I’ve had many opportunities given to me from God. I did prison ministry last weekend, am going a spring break campaign, and will be spending my summer doing mission work.
  • making people feel beautiful - This is probably a life goal. Not just outwardly beauty, but showing people that with God their inner beauty makes them outwardly beautiful. I work on this everyday.
  • peace -I honestly think I’ve done the most work towards peace in my own life.
  • helping the hurting - Again, something I try to work on everyday. In various ways, whether in those around me or through charities and organizations.
  • showing God’s love. - Refer to last two. I strive daily.
  • Second chances. - People’s mistakes and past do not define their future. Again, I’ve found this mostly in my own lives because of the people I surround myself with. Seeing the change of God is them is immensely beautiful.

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Prison Ministry

October 2, 2011 10:35 PM

About a month ago, I made a phone call that I would never had imagine making as much as an impact in my life as it did. My great Aunt and Uncle, Helen and Harold, started a prison ministry program in the ‘80’s in Madison, TN. They are both now in their middle 80’s. I was home for Labor Day weekend, and decided to give them a call. I want to be a missionary, and had been thinking about how amazing of an opportunity it would be if I could go with them. I called them and asked about the possibility. When they told me I could go, I asked if I could bring some friends from school. Aunt Helen gave me the run down on what all I would have to do to make that possible. I immediately sent a mass message to anyone I thought would be interested in such a trip. I got a few indifferent responses and a few enthusiastic responses. Later that week, I sat down with some friends while we talked about the idea of doing it. It was still a fresh and nifty idea, but mostly just something interesting to talk about it. A few weeks later it came up again while sitting in a local coffee shop. We stopped wanting it to be an idea or the subject of dreamy conversations, but rather an actual event in the works. We made a group on Facebook, and I sent out another group message in hopes of people getting more serious. The truth was though that people had no idea what to expect and my lack of experience meant that I couldn’t tell them. I was frustrated of the idea not being taken seriously, so I decided with my friends Josh Allison and Whitney Pirtle that the first trip should be small. We wanted to make sure that we all were all able to get close and know what to tell everyone else that they would be getting themselves into. Two weeks ago, we started making the plans official. We set a date of the trip, sent in everyone’s information to be cleared, and found a place to stay the night before.  We had been asking a couple of people for any Bibles that they would be willing to donate to the prison. Brad Montague saw a post that Josh made, and sent him a message inquiring about what we were doing. He sent Josh a few questions that we sat down and answered together. Within a few days, was the school’s first Idea Lab. When we got there, Brad asked us to talk about the upcoming trip to the prison. The response blew us away. People asked us a ton of questions, both at and outside the event.  Brad went and posted the questions we answered on the GO! blog. Again, the response was incredible.

We left Saturday morning to make our way to Nashville. We had decided to spend Saturday bonding and goofing off. We went to a festival at Centennial Park. There was an international festival that was a part of the free Musicians Corner concert. We walked around, listening to new and fresh music, talking to interesting strangers, and ogling the scenery. From there we went to a coffee shop and walked the streets. The whole day was filled with music, coffee, and bonding. I wouldn’t have had it any other way. We made our way to my cousin’s house that we were staying at for the night. We all found ourselves, whether together or apart, praying and trying to prepare ourselves for the day that was soon to be upon us.

The next morning after getting ready, we all went to Burger King. There is no way to describe what happened there other than God working to prepare us. We met a man named Henry or “Red.” Henry started talking to us while standing in line, and ending up sitting next to us while we ate. Henry decided to tell us a painful story. He had been in prison for 13 years. When he got out of prison, he found himself falling sort of a pretty life. His circumstances were and had been unlovable, dirty, and painful to hear. Before we left, we prayed with him. The look in his eyes displayed shock and love. It’s amazing to know God sent us there, because that was where He needed us to be.

We went to Tennessee’s Prison for Women. Josh and Whitney got to meet Aunt Helen and Uncle Harold, who are affectionately called Momma and Poppa Cox to the prisoners. We spent a good while talking before we went in. I’m not exactly sure what to say I expected. Whatever it was, today blew it out of the water. The women were loving, friendly, and huggable. They talked to us, hugged us, and welcomed us warmly. Josh lead the singing while a man named Thomas Snow did the sermon. The sermon was on Ezekiel 37. He described how even when we have “dry bones,” the Lord still has a plan for us. Even when things look hopeless, our hope is in the Lord. We worshiped with them there and an annex across the street.

I learned something from those women. Firstly I learned that stereotypes can and should be left at the door that God opens. Those women were kind, generous, and loving souls who wanted to be there to praise their God. The second thing I learned was in watching. They praise with no restrictions and without holding back. No one fell asleep and no one was distracted. Those women were there because they had a need to be in their souls. How often we take for granted the ability to worship. This weekend definitely tops my favorite weekends since coming to Freed. There are plans in the works to make this a periodical trip, that would branch out farther. God gave me an open door, and with some incredible friends, we’ve been running through open passageways. God has planted ideas in our heads and our hearts and is now making those ideas possible. Thank you warmly to all of you who prayed for us and gave us encouragement. However, it definitely does not stop here. We’re trying to collect Bibles to donate to the prisons, as well as finding people willing to volunteer. If you want to know more or get involved, please send a message our way!

 

God does wonderful things.

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Redemption

September 22, 2011 8:27 AM

The thing is that we all have little particles of memories that we want to forget. There are aches and pains and dark places that we try to hide when the sun rises. I think that’s what makes the love of God so wonderful and beautiful to feel. He sees all the darkness, pain, guilt, and fear inside us. He sees all the things we try to hide, and yet He still believes we’re worth love and forgiveness. Redemption. Redemption isn’t just a word we learn from old song books cracked open, yet ignored, on a Sunday morning. Redemption is a promise to love and forget all the dirt that covers us up. He washes us clean. The best part? He forgets. How could we not love a God like that?

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Future Travel Plans.

September 9, 2011 6:46 PM

I want to go to:

  • Haiti - to visit Roberta’s orphanage.
  •  India - because I desperately want to experience that culture first hand.
  • Africa - To work with children soldiers and open an agape house…. or at least work in one.
  • Latin America - dream life. Full time teacher/missionary. Open agape house.
  • Greece - work with people that have been rescued from human trafficking.
  • Nepal - to work with Conor Grennan and the Little Princes.

Currently, that’s really all I can think of. I just needed to make a tangible list.

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